If we watch close, we understand that neither the raw fruit nor the tree wants to leave each other. But when the fruit becomes ripe, this attachment automatically disappears and the fruit falls down. Similarly man has to experience anger, jealousy, passion, etc. just as the fruit had to undergo various stages of growth and taste before it became fully ripe so to get automatically detached from the tree. We cannot overcome these experiences in the beginning. But we must ponder over the fact why we underwent these experiences. Otherwise we will be the losers. We will become slaves of these experiences and can never achieve fulfillment or contentment in life.